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Muslim Schools Vs. Public Schools

12 14 09



Seven-year-old Zaahirah Abdullah has a passion for nose rings and bellybutton rings, thanks to her friends and a favorite teacher at Pyrtle elementary school in Lincoln, Nebraska.

“She’s really into style,” says her mother Najla Abdullah, who attended the same public school as a child. “I can see I really need to build Islamic fundamentals with her,” she adds earnestly in an interview with Sound Vision.

Zaahira’s interest in body ornamentation through the influence of friends and her teacher speaks to the power of public schools in shaping the attitudes of most Muslim children in North America.

Zaahirah is one of the 99 percent of Muslim children in the United States who attend public schools. And it’s her generation over whom the debate about sending Muslim children to Muslim or public school currently rages

Better environment in Muslim schools

The strongest argument in favor of sending children to Muslim schools is the presence of an Islamic environment. Muslim kids in most of these schools pray, interact with other Muslim children in classes and during breaks. They also generally have less exposure to sex, drugs, alcohol and violence. In addition, Muslim schools are a place to build identity and security.

“Had one [a Muslim school] been available in the city, they would definitely have sent me,” says Abdullah of her parents. “I think they would definitely have wanted me to have that sense of camaraderie, and that strength of people around you who are of the same faith and are there to support [you].”

“A Muslim school is the only place where they [Muslim kids] will ever have the chance to develop an identity that says, “Hey, these are my people. I belong to an identifiable community,'” writes New-York based Muslim school teacher Yahiya Emerick in an e-mail interview with Sound Vision. He has worked full-time in two Islamic schools, one in Michigan and the other in New York. He has also authored the book The Complete Idiot”s Guide to Understanding Islam.

Muslim schools give students a sense of self-worth, pride and cultural identity they could never get in a public school, said the late Sharifa Alkhateeb, president of the Muslim Education Council in Virginia. The organization educates educators and administrators about Islam, Muslims, Muslim families and Middle Eastern culture.

A sense of identity comes not just from being with other Muslim kids but also with the memories of praying, hearing the Adhan and discussing Islamic issues. For the child, “that’s invaluable,” Alkhateeb noted.

The perception of Muslim schools as “holding tanks”

“What usually happens is that when Ahmad Doe realizes his kid is turning into a foul-mouthed wretch with bad values and such, they look for a quick fix and toss him in an Islamic school. In one school I worked in, fully a third of the kids fit this description,” writes Emerick.

This is the double-edged sword of providing a comparatively better environment than most public schools. It has led to some parents of kids who have gotten out of control in public school to dump them into Muslim schools.

Alkhateeb said this leads parents to seeing these schools as “holding tanks” that will take control the bad influence of public schools on their kids.

Emerick, who has experienced first-hand such casualties of the public school system adds, “to all who complain about Muslim schools having bad kids too, remember they didn’t come in as good kids. They came in as public school kids.”

More Islamic knowledge in Muslim schools

Children tend to be more exposed to Islamic knowledge in Muslim schools.

“I know a lot of Canadian-born brothers and sisters who have been to public schools [and] have a big problem learning Arabic Duas and Quran, and sometimes there is also a difference in the way they think about Islam or certain things,” says Taha Ghayyur, former president of the Young Muslims of Canada, an Ontario-based youth organization.

But others, like Shabbir Mansuri, founding director of the Fountain Valley, California-based Council on Islamic Education, see the Islamic knowledge offered by many Muslim schools as limited.

Mansuri has three daughters. Muslim schools were not available in his area for his two older children when they were growing up. But they were for his youngest daughter, who attended one.

While he acknowledged that, “she was able to learn Surahs [and] verses from the Quran,” he adds, “but did the school make a difference in the thinking and understanding of those Quranic verses? The answer is no.”

Many Muslim schools are disorganized

Regardless of the comparatively healthier environment, many Muslim schools continue to be disorganized

Alkhateeb said sticking to rules and starting and ending classes on time, for example, are a problem for many of these schools.

Another difficulty is staff turnover, which is due to two other problems: poor wages for teachers and culture clashes at the administrative level.
Poor wages for teachers in Muslim schools

Alkhateeb pointed to the “horrible” wages teachers are offered at most Muslim schools as part of the explanation for staff turnover.

Many Muslim schools struggle to stay open and in some cases, rely mostly on private donations apart from the fees they collect. They also depend on the good intentions and Islamic spirit of Muslims like Emerick who are willing to teach at low salaries. Explaining his reason for choosing to teach at a Muslim school over a public one which pays better, Emerick writes:

“I couldn’t justify to myself going to a school every morning in which I would not be allowed to mention Islam and its truth. I couldn’t bring myself to go to a school and teach a bunch of students useful worldly knowledge when I know that later that day they will be getting drunk, dancing, having premarital relations, swearing, smoking and such. Who would I be making stronger? If I don’t teach in a Muslim school, then someone else will have to be found and the children may not benefit from my experience and enthusiasm for the Deen.”

An overall bad administrative model

A top-down leadership approach, imported from “back home” versus a more team-oriented, North American-based horizontal leadership approach, is also cause for clashes in many Muslim schools.

Alkhateeb explained that in the first approach, a good leader is considered someone who bosses everyone around, without consultation. This, in fact, is seen as a drawback. In the second case, consultation is part of the process, and the head of an organization engages in this with fellow workers. It is interesting to note that the latter method has roots in Islam and is known as Shura or conducting all affairs by consultation.

This culture clash in leadership perception leads many Muslim school teachers to quit in frustration, she said.
The cost of Muslim schools-two views

One problem many parents complain about is the high tuition fee of Muslim schools. In fact, cost is in some cases the defining factor in whether or not a child goes to a Muslim school or not.

While there are families who cannot afford to send their kids, Emerick argues that, “most Muslims in the suburbs own houses, multiple cars, take vacations to Pakistan or Syria and wear the best clothes. Many Muslim schools discount their official rates for true hardship cases. The school I work at has about 15 free students out of a total population of 70 students!”

“What is more expensive? Paying a little and having a better chance your child will make it to Jannah, or saving a measly sum and crying in twenty years when you realize your child is not a Muslim and doesn’t care about anything except what you did earlier, namely money?” he asks.

Academic standards: how do Muslim schools fare?

“Most of the Muslim schools have not developed to the point of being comparable academically to a well-run Christian private school or Jewish private school for that matter,” said Alkhateeb.

But not all Muslim schools fit this description. Aqsa school for girls in Chicago is one example. It offers schooling for girls only from grades 4 until 12, and education for boys at the elementary level.

According to Khawla Nassar, an Arabic and Religion teacher at the school, their graduates have gone on to Harvard and Yale, have pursued medicine, law, or have continued seeking higher degrees even after getting married and having children.

Their experience at the Muslim school, “instilled in them the value of education,” she explains.

Do Muslim schools create insular children?

Some parents fear their kids will become closed and insular if they attend a school of Muslims only. A mother at one of Sound Vision’s message boards on Parenting writes: “…I have seen many children who went to Islamic schools who cannot interact with their American neighbors. They feel shy or feel like they cannot talk to them. I don’t want my child going through that. I want her to be able to interact with all the children here in the US.”

But Emerick strongly rebuts this notion.

“Do Muslim kids who attend Christian schools in Pakistan have any danger of becoming closed to their society? Are Jewish kids who attend Jewish schools in America somehow socially stunted or unable to cope with American society?” he asks.

“No and no,” he answers.

Putting the problems in Muslim schools in perspective

For all of their different opinions about this issue, everyone interviewed for this article expressed strong support for Muslim schools.

Mansuri says parents must devote more than just money occasionally to support Muslim schools. They must devote time and commitment as well.

Alkhateeb said the problems are, “a necessary element of the eventual excellence of Muslim schools. I think the Muslim schools are on the letter “H’ on a scale of A to Z. H stands for How To. They’re still learning How To. And that’s okay.”

“The public school system is never going to be everything that practicing Muslim parents want it to be for their children,” she adds. These parents want every aspect of a school to be Islamic: its ethics, raison d’etre and the style in which teachers are motivated.

Some of the problems in public schools include chronic misinformation textbooks, the issue of food, clothing for physical education, proms, dances and other social events.

It all starts in the home-parents’ responsibility

But what is often disregarded in the whole debate is the role parents and the family play in a child’s Islamic development, which is much more important, many say, than which school the child attends.

“We’re asking Muslim schools to perform the tasks that we as parents are supposed to perform,” says Mansuri. “The Muslim schools are not supposed to be substitutes for parental responsibility.”

“Muslim schools are not an answer,” he adds. “An Islamic environment that incorporates all the principles of Islam is an answer. If I succeed in doing that gradually then I would have an option of sending them to Muslim schools and/or public schools.”

With regards to the dangerous environment found in many public schools, Alkhateeb said, “the public school is not the reason for Muslim kids getting into drugs, alcohol and wild dating. The reason is that the parents of these Muslim kids have not developed a secure relationship of knowledge and trust and humility.”

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  • Muslim Parent

    The right way to do it is to send children public schools so they can get the secular education and physical education they need. And then send them to the masjid after school and weekends, so they can get the correct Islamic education and Tarbiah. I find kids in Islamic schools are spoiled, have little regard for elders, dont’ do proper wudhu, can’t read the Quran properly, and only a few of them are really excelling academically. The marketers are promising to create scholars in these schools, but more than likely, it won’t be your child. Why? The teachers are very young and inexperienced and under qualified. The principals are still getting there own Masters degrees and have egos. They really don’t know what they are doing. They will figure it out one day, but by that time, your child’s time will have passed, and your bank account will be smaller.

  • sadaf

    i think the same way,,,,i noticed that principals at the islamic schools are still learning what criteria should they adopt. Islamic curriculum is not even prepared yet…..they are churning money …of course for daily expenditures but still ,,gym and palyground are neccessary for the students.

  • ban

    so true we have kids in an Islamic school and are facing 95% of the problems mentioned. I feel that we as muslims should think very very hard before opening an Islamic school. Allowing every one and any one to open school is not a good idea. By opening a school you are not only teaching children islamic values and education you are also accountable for all your actions in front of Allah SWT. Opening a school on donations and asking for donations all the time is like asking some one else to pay for opening your bussiness. you earn a salary that you can not even imagine with your high school diploma. teachers are young inexperienced under paid and are totally
    intoxicated on the authority they get as teachers. Principals are mostly imam masjids who have opened schools in maslid for few yrs and then collect donation buy land,building in their name to expand.The education standrads are suboptimal. The school dicipline is non existant. Kids are always hitting each other and younger and weaker kids always feel intimadated. Kids who do not fight or are not pushy just keep waiting for their turn. If their is a issue you want to talk to some one sensible no luck here son kept on saying to me that mom we should al die what is point of living. we should die a go to Jannah.I kept ignoring for two wks and then spoke to the principal as I was getting very upset hearing it again and again. Guess the response no understanding of my agony hearing from my child that he wants to die she said you should ignore and I said I have been for two wks. oh she says do not know what kind of religious upbringing you have in your house. this when we started in oct now in april last friday I found my son crying his eyes out and so asfraid that he was shaking when went to pick him up. I asked him what happened he said he was afraid his brother will go jahana as he did not put money in box in school. so what did I do no i did not go to speak to the pricipal.
    THE LIST GOES ON AND ON. May Allah SWT help us parents who want their kids to grow up as muslims who understand and practice their religion. Ameen

  • K

    I live in an area with very few Muslims. The nearest mosque is almost an hour away and the nearest (unaccredited!) Islamic school is over two hours away. That said, my kids go to public schools. With my own kids, the key is providing them with a good foundation in Islam long before they even started school. They’re certain enough of our religion that they speak up for themselves when they think that something might not be correct.

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  • Tru Isou

    The right way is not to fill their minds with religious nonsense. Teach children to question supra-natural religious crap and learn to examine and question thoughts and beliefs of those around them.

  • Daniel


    I am a university student who was seeking a better understanding of Islamic culture. In Australia we welcome many Muslims and I sought a better understanding of your beliefs.

    I wanted to respect your culture, but you clearly don’t respect mine, firstly everyone deserves an education even if they are to quote ” getting drunk, dancing, having premarital relations”. Secondly, what is wrong with dancing? And while premarital relationships maybe taboo in Muslim culture, they are perfectly acceptable in our culture, we want to find someone we are emotional, spiritually and sexually compatible with through dating. Finally, once again just because alcohol is taboo in your region it is not taboo here. How can you expect respect, when you have none for us?

    Do Muslim schools create insular children?

    Yes, they do. While Jewish and Christian students have no problem interacting with Americans this is because there is a much stronger focus on the English langue which is not present in Muslim schools. Furthermore, in order to have a successful career your child j=must be able to interact with both sexes, and believe they are equals capable of the same jobs, or else he/she will not succeed in America. Jewish/Christian schools do not separate genders, those that do whole dances and activities for both genders regularly.

    To all parents, the best alternative is to send your child to a private Christian/Catholic school, the education they receive will be better and they will have better job success. Teach them religion at home.

  • Souad

    Dear Daniel,
    We respect you culture and we try the good from it and avoid the bad. We are insulting no one when we want our children to be in a safe environment , Alcohol is not just a taboo but a desease for all humans. All the religions of the book consider drinking alcohol a sin, why should we consider premarital relation a sin because it is a sin in all religions. Please do not blame us for trying to follow the way of God that was sent by all his messengers from Noah to Mohamed peace and blessing be on them all. We are not perfect but we cannot lie to our selves and say that is ok to sin to fit in a western societies. Again, we respect you , but we should chose what to follow what not to follow. If you are a parent, you will understand better our concerns in regards to education. Peace